World Day of Prayer for Grandparents and the Elderly

The theme chosen by the Holy Father is "His mercy is from age to age" (Lk 1:50), which expresses the link with World Youth Day which will take place a few days later in Lisbon (1-6 August 2023).

The WYD theme "Mary got up and went with haste" (Lk 1:39) shows us, in fact, the young Mary who sets out to go and find her elderly cousin Elizabeth and who loudly proclaims, in the Magnificat , the strength of the alliance between young and old.
On the occasion of the Day , the Holy Father will preside over a Eucharistic liturgy in St. Peter's Basilica and invites parishes, dioceses, associations and ecclesial communities from all over the world to celebrate the Day in their own pastoral context .

"The elderly should be cared for like a treasure of humanity: they are our wisdom, our memory. It is crucial that grandchildren remain close to their grandparents, who are like roots from which they draw the sap of human and spiritual values"  Pope Francis

Pope Francis established the World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly, celebrated each year on the fourth Sunday of July to coincide with the feast of Sts. Joachim and Anne, to emphasize the pastoral care of the elderly as a priority. Not only are grandchildren and young people called upon to be present in the lives of older people, but older people and grandparents also have a mission of evangelization, proclamation and prayer, and of encouraging young people in their faith

Seniors - A New Vocation

I woke up one day only to discover I was a senior citizen! Where did the time go? It seemed like only yesterday that I was "the young guy" among my "older" brother priests. I must not have been paying much attention as the days turned into months, then into years. Now, I look into the mirror as I prepare to shave in the morning and ask, "Who are YOU? Where did YOU come from?"

It’s true that age brings its own share of aches and pains and wrinkles we “seniors” didn’t have or, at least, never noticed before. But it is also true that age brings a certain wisdom and insight born only of experience … at living life! Been there, done that! My hair — when I had it —  was brown … once. I could read my prayer book or menus … without glasses, once. When did my clothes shrink? What did she just say? Where are my keys? If you don’t take these things too seriously, one can just smile and say, “well, I guess I am getting older!” It’s really not so bad, especially when you consider the alternative.

Age is a gift, a beautiful gift to be cherished. A gift that offers us memories, reminders of how fortunate we’ve been through the years and of all the people who have blessed the journey we’ve taken. As seniors, we’ve lived and learned, we’ve laughed and cried, we’ve loved and have been loved in return. And there is still more to come!

Continue reading Bishop O'Connell's message HERE or listen to the pod:

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Looking for ways to celebrate this special day?

Click the link for some great and simple ideas.

Ideas for celebrating
‘World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly’
 

Individuals and Families

• Have children and grandchildren bless the grandparents

• Visit an elderly neighbor and be a blessing to them; do a service or bring a small gift

• Make a display table of photographs of deceased grandparents and elderly

• Create a memory scrapbook

• Remember your grandparents by doing something they loved (make a recipe, listen to music, go fishing or some other activity)

• Pray the Novena of Sts. Anne & Joachim for Faith and Perseverance • www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/marriage-and-family/natural-family-planning/upload/nfp-sts-anne-joachim-novena.pdf
  
   

For Reading and Reflection:

“Letter to the Elderly” written by Pope St. John Paul II (1999) • www.vatican.va/content/john-paul-ii/en/letters/1999/documents/hf_jp-ii_let_01101999_elderly.html

“The Blessings of Age – A Pastoral Message on Growing Older within the Faith Community,” USCCB (1999- English & Spanish) • www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/blessings-of-age

“The Catholic Grandparents Handbook:  Creative Ways to Show Love, Share Faith, and Have Fun,” Lorene Hanley Duquin, Word Among Us Press, February 2018

More Resources:

Catholic Grandparents Association website (emblem, poster, prayer)

• www.catholicgrandparentsassociation.org/

Franciscan Media, Saint of the Day:  Saints Anne & Joachim

• www.franciscanmedia.org/saint-of-the-day/saints-joachim-and-anne

Holy See – Dicastery for the Laity, Family and Life webpage

• www.laityfamilylife.va/content/laityfamilylife/en/amoris-laetitia/iniziative-e-risorse/giornata-mondiale-e-anziani.html

Jesuit Resource.org

• www.xavier.edu/jesuitresource/online-resources/prayer-index/prayers-for-grandparents

Diocese of Trenton webpages:

• dioceseoftrenton.org/golden-years

• dioceseoftrenton.org/50th-wedding-anniversary

• dioceseoftrenton.org/world-day-grandparents-and-elderly 

Grandparents have a place in the heart of a family

Mary Morrell | Contributing Editor, The Monitor

Pope Francis obviously has a special place in his heart for grandparents.

This was something I rediscovered while preparing to write a story about World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly. I read much of what Pope Francis has written over the years about his pontificate concerning the need to value, care for and be present to the older members of society, and grandparents, no matter how old they are.

Although there were many beautiful teachings and stories, one grabbed my heart and brought me to tears. It was the story about his love for his grandmother Rosa Bergoglio, who was a great influence on his life.

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When The Monitor hits home      Rayanne Bennett | Associate Publisher, The Monitor

Each month, when considering the subject of our cover page, we try to select something that is meaningful and applicable to the lives of our readers. Some covers come closer to the target than others, but this month is about as spot on as any that I can recall.

With few exceptions, most of us have grown up with one or more grandparents in our lives.  We likewise know elderly people from our parishes, neighborhoods and workplaces. If we are so blessed, we have become or will become elderly ourselves. And so, the decision of Pope Francis to establish World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly and to call us all to look with fresh eyes on the state of older persons is universally relevant to each of our lives, no matter where we are in our journeys.

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CELEBRATING GRANDPARENTING VIDEO SERIES


 

Following his Jan. 31 Sunday Angelus, Pope Francis announced his decision to establish a World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly to take place annually on the fourth Sunday of July. The theme of the day, “I am with you always,” serves as a reason for celebration of all generations together.

In honor of the day, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., will serve as principal celebrant for Mass in St. Maximilian Kolbe Church, Toms River, July 25, the day before the memorial of Sts. Joachim and Anne, grandparents of Jesus. The 11 a.m. Mass will be livestreamed and can be viewed at Youtube.com/trentondiocese and other diocesan media outlets.

The Holy Father expressed concern that grandparents and the elderly are often forgotten, but offered encouragement that, in the darkest moments, the Lord sends angels to console their loneliness.

In their pastoral guidelines for this annual celebration, the Vatican Dicastery of Laity, Family and Life explains it as “a way of incorporating attention for the frail elderly into the routine fabric of our pastoral work,” through such things as prayer, addressing the issue of loneliness and creating solidarity networks.

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